Adventures with Dana

Where every day is an adventure

In Which I Rely on the Kindness of Strangers - New Zealand, February 2017

This wasn’t the first story I had planned to tell you about my trip to New Zealand. I had planned to write about my 11-hour layover in South Korea, about magical glowworm caves, steaming thermal pools, and embracing my inner Hobbit. And I will tell you those stories, later. First, though, I will tell you about some bad luck and some good people. Because this is an adventure too.

Today I was in a car accident. In a rental car. In rural New Zealand.

First, before you ask, I’m fine. I was not hurt in any way, beyond being frightened and shaken up by the incident. No one else was hurt either, as this was a solo situation. The car was less fortunate, but we’ll get to that.

What happened? I’m honestly not sure I know. I had just left the Hobbiton Movie Set Tour (I promise that story – and plenty of photos – later). I was driving along a curvy road when suddenly I lost control of the car as it swerved back and forth. Maybe the tire blew, maybe I hit the edge of the verge wrong, I really couldn’t tell you. What I do know is that I was very scared, I couldn’t get the steering wheel to react, and I ended up in a ditch.

However, this really isn’t the story of that accident. Beyond the fact that I’m EXTREMELY pleased that I sprung for the full coverage insurance from the rental company, and therefore paid nothing out-of-pocket, the most dramatic part of the rest of the story is that I had to return to Auckland in a tow truck (2+ hours) to get a new car and fill out paperwork, before driving BACK to Rotorua (3+ hours), where I’m currently staying.

What this story is really about is the amazing people I encountered along the way.

As soon as I got out of my car (in the ditch), shaking a little from the fear, three cars had pulled over to make sure I was okay. One woman gave me a drink before moving on. Other cars paused to check in. Jules and Peter, and their minivan full of family stayed with me for at least 40 minutes (until they had to leave to get to work), loaned me a cell phone for the entire time to contact the rental/insurance company and begin the process, and made sure I was really okay before leaving. They made me smile and feel not so alone in a difficult moment.

It turns out the ditch was next to the fence of Hayden’s farm. When he came out to see why the cows were acting strangely (they were quite the audience to the accident – every one staring at me curiously), he also saw what had happened. He pulled out his tractor to tow me out of the ditch, both of us hoping that the car was drivable, and when we saw the extent of the damage (front passenger wheel unusable), brought me to his home, let me use the phone to set up a tow, and got me a drink of water. His wonderful wife, Kate, invited me in for lunch with them and her visiting parents, and everyone made me feel looked after.

If this had happened to me as a stranger/tourist in Los Angeles, I don’t know what the results would be. Would anyone stop for me? Stay with me once they were assured I wasn’t injured? Invited me into their home for support? I don’t know. I doubt it, though.

As I tried again and again to thank Hayden and Kate, they reminded me that they, too, are travelers. They have also relied on the kindness of strangers and this is their way of paying it forward.

Someday I hope to do the same.

Hayden and Kate's sweet farm dog, Walter, who waited for the tow truck with me.

#FlashbackFriday - Dublin, July 2011

Every so often I realize something completely obvious.  Traveling is boring.  Not "travel"--going somewhere that isn't home, but "traveling"--the actual getting-there part.  Sitting still on a plane for hours is dull. As are long layovers in random airports, where even wandering and shopping isn’t fun, because you’re lugging around a heavy carry-on.  When they eventually invent teleportation technology I'll be first in line.

Fortunately, Ireland was worth the aggravation.  I stayed at the dorms at Trinity College in Dublin, which is available for summer tourists for a very reasonable price.  The rooms are dorm-like, small, and clean.  It automatically was a step up from some places I've stayed in the past just because the nice young man from the visitor's office carried my suitcase up the stairs to my room for me.  The greatest point of my room, however, was the bathroom, which was so small that sitting on the toilet required me to wedge my legs under the sink.  Imagine if I were tall?

The main thing everyone told me about Ireland is that I shouldn't expect good weather, even in the summer.  My friend Ron (who comes every summer) told me that he doesn't even bother to bring short-sleeved shirts anymore.  Well, everyone LIED.  The first few days were sunny and in the mid-70s and GORGEOUS!  I picked up lunch and ate in St. Stephen's Green (a big park) and, apparently, everyone else in Dublin had exactly the same idea.  We all soaked up the sun and listened to the music from the bandstand.

Despite a distinct lack of sleep, I tried to embrace Dublin the first day.  I walked to the park, then to the National Museum Archaeology branch where I learned more than I had ever planned about things like Vikings, ancient Ireland, and bodies mummified by peat bogs.  I probably would have gotten more out of the museum if there hadn't been about 10 different tour groups of teenagers, each speaking a different language at a higher decibel range than the last.  I think I heard more world languages than English in the museum, a welcome reminder that a great museum is open to all, but a little tough on the eardrums.

From the museum, I walked down the road to the National Library, passing a huge political rally regarding the economy of Ireland.  It helps to know a little about the current events situation wherever you visit, and moments like this often bring them into focus.

In the library they had a fascinating exhibit about William Butler Yeats (among other things, he was in love with a woman named Maud Gonne, who wouldn't marry him.  Eventually he discovered that she had two illegitimate children with another man.  He was kind of an uncle to the kids, but when the girl grew up he eventually proposed to her, too.  She ALSO turned him down).  You never know what you might learn, and I have a fondness for salacious historic stories. To stay in the literary spirit, I followed my library visit with a walk to Merrion Square (park), where a statue of Oscar Wilde looks saucily across the street to his childhood home.  Wilde wrote one of my favorite lines ever from a play "It's impossible to eat muffins in an agitated manner," (The Importance of Being Earnest) and his general words of wisdom (supposedly his last words were "either the wallpaper goes, or I do") always amuse me. As many of his quotations are listed around the statue, I soaked up a little of his wisdom. (On the other hand, I also picked up a biography of his wife while in Dublin and learned that he was a dreadful husband. Constance: The Tragic and Scandalous Life of Mrs. Oscar Wilde by Franny Moyle)

The next morning I started with one of the top sites on my list, the Book of Kells and Trinity Library.  The Book of Kells is actually 4 books, the Gospels of John, Matthew, Mark and Luke, which were copied and illuminated at a monastery in Kells around the year 800.  The art of the books, both full-page illustrations and illuminated letters, is astounding.  I was also proud to be able to translate the word "scribe" to "sofer" for some Israeli tourists.  

The main goal of my visit, however, was the Long Room at Trinity Library.  If you ever want to know what my view of heaven is, visit the Trinity Library and then add a few more comfy chairs, a cuddy cat, and a cup of tea.  This is the library that they modeled the Hogwarts Library in the Harry Potter films after.  It is gorgeous, with arching ceilings and individual niches lined floor to ceiling with old books.  Of course, they don't allow photos, so I can't share it with you.  Just try to picture it for yourself.

They also had an exhibit about early/Victorian medicine in Ireland.  Being a doctor's child I'm appropriately...squeamish.  Let's just say that I don't recommend reading the letter written by the woman who had a mastectomy done--without anaesthetic.  Ergh.

I spent the afternoon on a Hop-on, Hop-off bus tour of Dublin.  I had a lovely guide for most of it, saucy enough that when he was discussing the statue of Molly Malone (of "Cockles and Muscles" fame) he discussed her probable evening job--leading to people referring to her as "the dish with the fish" and "the tart with the cart".  

The more educational part of the afternoon was spent at Kilmainham Gaol, a famous, now empty, jail with a rather storied history.  It was founded as a reformer jail, very different from most of Europe's prisons at the time.  The goal was to reform the criminals so they wouldn't be repeat offenders.  However, the jail is mostly famous for all of the political prisoners it held at different points in time, particularly those who fought for Irish self-rule against the English.  One of the saddest stories is that of James Plunkett of the 1916 rebellion, who was allowed to marry his sweetheart Grace Gifford the night before he was executed by firing squad.   The Gaol gave me a great sense of Irish history from the first rebellion in 1791, through the potato famine, and into the 1920s. Again, learning about the history of wherever you are travelling can add a fascinating perspective to your travels. You never know what you might discover.

 What are you looking to learn?

#FlashbackFriday - Rome, July 2010

*Note: I will periodically be doing #FlashbackFriday posts, covering trips from years prior to the existence of this website. Hope you enjoy my stories!

Things I am good at: Getting lost.

Things I am ALSO good at: Following a map.

These may seem mutually exclusive, but in Rome they definitely aren't.  Rome's street map was designed by monkeys. Or possibly by a toddler throwing spaghetti at a sheet. The streets here just don't make any sense.  They twist and turn and one block has one name and the next block another.  Rome is quite obviously an ancient city, because it's ridiculously planned as many ancient cities seem to a modern audience. I proved this within 15 minutes of arrival at the train station (from the airport) by getting completely turned around on the way to my hotel.

To start from the beginning, a little advice:  If you fly into Rome, and if you take the easy "Leonardo Express" train into town from the airport, you MUST validate your ticket in the little yellow machine.  I learned this the hard way by proxy--the people sitting next to me on the train hadn't validated (I did) and ended up paying a 50€ fine.  Oy. (*please note, this story is from 2010, the validation procedure or the fine amount may have changed. Always double-check for yourself.)

I planned to walk from the train station to my hotel--all of 1/2 a mile.  Unfortunately, I can't always find my way out of a paper bag, so my short walk was almost doubled by lostness.  Since it was also my first time in the Rome heat and I was wearing a backpack and dragging my little wheeled suitcase, I was red and dripping by the time I got there.

Despite my transit woes, I still believe in hitting the ground running. It’s the best way to fight jet lag, and the best way to start a new adventure.

Since Rome is built on a series of hills, walks are more like hikes.  Therefore, I hiked up the hill to the Basilica of Saint Peter in Chains (San Pietro i Vicolo).  No, I wasn't particularly interested in the chains that supposedly held St. Peter when he was a prisoner in both Rome and Jerusalem, but this church holds a piece of statuary that is famous around the world - Michaelangelo's Moses.  This is the famous statue of Moses with horns, a mis-translation of the word for "rays," as Moses was said to be "radiating light" when he descended from Mt. Sinai with the Ten Commandments.  Of course, this statue is also one of the reasons why, for hundreds of years, ignorant people thought that Jews had horns.  The statue itself is beautiful, if confused.

I proceeded to the Colosseum and the Roman Forum for a history lesson.  The Colosseum is a massive ruin.  It's neat to walk around and get a sense for the scale and the absurdity of what happened there (gladiators, etc.), but I'm not sure I appreciated it fully.  On the other hand, the Forum was fascinating.  I started at the Arch of Titus, erected by Jewish slaves and celebrating the conquering of the Jews by the Romans.  I'm very proud to let you all know that I spit on the Arch.  Take that, Titus!

Walking through the forum is fascinating, particularly with a good explanation (I downloaded free Rick Steves audioguides for several locations).  You hear about the emperors (caesars), and I've read Shakespeare's version of Julius Caesar, but it feels very fictional until you see the place where Julius was cremated (people still put flowers there).  The scope of history in Rome is amazing, a great reminder of how young the US is, countrywise (okay, yes, technically Italy is only 140 years old, but that's just nitpicking).

In the evening I strolled down to the Trevi Fountain.  Now, the Trevi Fountain is something everyone should see if they visit Rome.  It should especially be seen at night, when it's beautifully lit up.  However, anyone who's seen it in a movie, where the heroine wanders alone by the fountain and makes a wish as she throws her coin, has been lied to.  It was a MOB SCENE.  Absolutely packed.  Fortunately, the crowd was very polite and was letting everyone take their turn by the rim.  Yes, I threw my coin.  Yes, I made a wish.  No, I'm not telling you what it was.  

Maybe it will show up in a later post…